Many people believe that once you settle down with someone, your sex life will eventually get boring.
While this may be the case in certain instances, there is a myriad of ways to keep things spicy in the bedroom, or – as in the case of this week’s How I Do It, our weekly sex and love diary series – in public.
Please meet Daniel*, a divorced 36-year-old man who has two children (who live with their mum) and is currently in a relationship. He has just moved in with his girlfriend Teresa*, 40.
During lockdown, the couple has struggled with being in such close quarters, but it has also meant plenty of time to get freaky.
From sex in the kitchen where the neighbours can get a peek to a naughty car park visit, both Daniel and Teresa both enjoy being watched while getting it on with each other.
Let’s find out more, shall we?
Saturday
We get woken up early by the kids but manage to palm them off by sending them downstairs with their iPads.
After a bit of extra sleep, I wake up horny and start spooning my girlfriend.
She responds by guiding my hands towards her clitoris, so I can start to play with her – which leads us to great morning sex until we are interrupted by the sound of kids running upstairs and are forced to stop before either of get a chance to finish.
That evening, after a couple of bottles of wine, my girlfriend goes down on me.
We have sex on the sofa and the dining table to finish what we started that morning and finally release the sexual frustration that has lingered all day.
Sunday
Today was a day out with the kids, walking around some woodland trails.
My girlfriend and I settle down for a glass of wine and a movie on the sofa in the evening.
A couple of sex scenes in the movie get us both turned on, so we strip our clothes off and have sex right there – before moving to the kitchen counter.
My girlfriend opens the back door and I do her from behind. We like the idea of people watching us naked or catching us in the act.
We have toyed with the idea of going to a swingers club but the pandemic put a stop to that.
Maybe once the clubs reopen, we will revisit the idea.
Monday
A full day out with the kids and entertaining them.
We come home shattered and grumpy, which leads to us arguing and falling out.
It doesn’t help that I get a text from an ex asking me to come over and have sex, and who then also proceeds to send me nudes and videos of us having sex from when we were together.
Needles to say it didn’t go down well.
Tuesday
Things are still frosty between us today, despite us talking about it.
My girlfriend decides to spend the day at her sister’s house, so goes go out for the day.
I had deleted the nudes of all my exes as soon as we broke up, but looking back over the messages my ex sent me the previous night is turning me on.
I play with myself while looking at her nudes and the videos. When I finish, I regret it and promptly delete everything.
When my girlfriend comes back, she tells me that she missed me and it was nice to have some time away.
Lockdown has seen us together 24/7 and we are both going a bit stir crazy and missing contact with other people.
Because we have been spending so much time together, we have slowly stopped appreciating each other and it has led to tension between us. We have both lost the structure of our daily lives and yearn for the freedom of the outside world.
I know we are lucky to have each other through the pandemic and I’m well aware that people have been alone and isolated.
But sometimes it just feels like you can have too much of a good thing.
No sex tonight and early to bed.
Wednesday
Up early, shipping he kids off for their first day back at school, safe in the knowledge that both of our ex partners will be picking them up and we will finally have some time alone together.
My girlfriend ended falling asleep on the sofa after our dinner, so another night of no sex.
Thursday
We started the morning off with me going down on my girlfriend.
The sex dreams I was having made sure I woke up with a stiff erection. Despite making us both late for work, we still had sex to start the day.
We both finished work late and were shattered, so that was it for the day.
Friday
After dinner, we decide to go for a drive, instead of sitting in front of the sofa.
In the early days of our relationship, we used to like being quite risky – I would often put my hands down her pants and play with her in dark corners of bars or on long drives, while she sat in the passenger seat.
I even once played with my girlfriend on a particularly empty domestic flight to ease her anxiety over flying. It helped enormously, and we have been addicted to it ever since – but unfortunately lockdown means unnecessary trips are forbidden.
During our drive, we park up by a secluded canal. My girlfriend takes off her jeans and I play with her.
Eventually, I am fondling her completely naked body until she climaxes, while a man smoking a cigarette watches us from his balcony.
We both want others to watch us.
Then we drove home and f***ed naked in the back seat of the car on our driveway.
How I Do It
In Metro.co.uk’s How I Do It you get a sneak peek into a week of a person’s sex and love life – from vanilla love-making to fetishes, threesomes and polyamorous relationships, they reveal it all.
Fancy taking part yourself? Email almara.abgarian@metro.co.uk for more information.
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source https://metro.co.uk/2020/09/25/how-i-do-it-dad-of-two-who-loves-having-sex-public-with-girlfriend-13291705/
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