After weeks of speculation, Kate Middleton revealed the heartbreaking news that she has been diagnosed with cancer.
In a video uploaded to the couple’s Instagram page, the Princess of Wales explained that the diagnosis had come as a ‘huge shock’ to her and husband, Prince William.
In particular, the 42-year-old explained that they have spent the last few weeks trying to ‘process and manage’ the news for the sake of their young family.
‘It has taken us time to explain everything to George, Charlotte and Louis in a way that’s appropriate for them, and to reassure them that I’m going to be okay,’ Kate said.
‘I am well, and getting stronger every day by focusing on the things that will help me heal.’
Conversations surrounding cancer are difficult, but it can be even harder as a parent to know how to explain your diagnosis to your child.
However, it’s important to be honest with your children. And while you may want to get advice from your medical team, or a therapist, before you begin the discussions, keep in mind that being open will ultimately help them understand, feel more secure, and cope with their own feelings.
See the first conversation as a starting point – you don’t need to have all the answers straight away, and there are likely to be more discussions going forward.
The Macmillan website reads: ‘Be as prepared as you can. Make sure you have all the information you need and that you understand it.
‘You may want to think about the questions a child might ask and the words you will use to explain things.’
Macmillan also encourages parents to remind children that they did not cause the cancer, and that it is not something you can catch.
And to ensure they aren’t left with any unanswered questions, the charity recommends reassuring them that they can always ask you about whatever they need to know, and that you will listen to any fears or concerns they have.
How to speak to your children about cancer
It’s best to use words your children will understand, which will vary depending on their ages. Here are some tips to help you through the conversation:
- Find out what they know and explain anything they have misunderstood.
- Use simple, clear language and short sentences.
- Keep information relevant to the current situation, rather than things that may happen in the future.
- Be prepared for them to react in their own way, and ask them if there is anything else they want to know.
- Explain how their lives and routines may be affected.
- Repeat the information for younger children, especially those under seven, as they may not take it all in or understand.
Source: Macmillan
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