Is your sex life feeling too vanilla as of late?
Sometimes, we fall into a rut where even the most passionate bedroom antics aren’t enough – and we need to shake things up.
A useful way to come up with new sexual activities is to write up a bucket list and work your way through it.
For those feeling uninspired, a new piece of research has revealed the top fantasies Brits want to try in the sack.
The survey, which included 2,897 participants, was split by gender (not including non-binary people) and showed what men and women prefer, respectively.
For instance, the most popular bucket list item to tick off for women is being blindfolded during sex, while for men the number one spot is having a threesome.
Meanwhile, the least popular activity among women includes writing erotic fan fiction for a partner (7%) while most men aren’t keen on bringing food into the bedroom (only 8% said yes).
Both genders are up for getting freaky in a jacuzzi at 31% and 26% respectively and public sex is also a hit, albeit in different places.
While women want to have sex in a lift, men prefer doing this in a public toilet.
Unsurprisingly, given the current climate where only people in ‘established’ relationships are legally allowed to have sex, virtual fun made it onto both genders’ bucket list too, but with one major difference.
The most popular sex fantasies among women
- Blindfold (35%)
- Sex in a jacuzzi (31%)
- Sex in a lift (26%)
- Roleplay (24%)
- Sexy photoshoot (20%)
- Bondage (18%)
- Choking (16%
- Phone sex (14%)
- Sex in a car (12%)
- Bringing in a third party (12%)
- Sex on the beach (10%)
- Watching porn with a partner (9%)
- Using flavoured lube (8%)
- Writing fan fiction for a partner (7%)
The most popular sex fantasies among men
- Bringing in a third party (36%)
- Video call sex (30%)
- Sex in a jacuzzi (26%)
- Sex in a public toilet (22%)
- Roleplay (22%)
- Making a sex tape (20%)
- Sex on a balcony (19%)
- Watching porn with partner (17%)
- Bondage (16%)
- Anal sex (14%)
- Sex in a car (13%)
- Couples toys (12%)
- One-night-stand (9%)
- Sex with food (8%)
The research by Onbuy.com, which featured 1,452 women and 1,445 men, revealed that the latter want to go all out with video sex (30%) but the former would rather do it over the phone (14%).
In fact, video sex didn’t even make the list for women – but perhaps that is because the participants included have already tried it.
If you’re considering trying it for yourself but aren’t sure where to start, don’t fret – we have created a handy guide for you.
And if nothing on these bucket lists appeal, why not try a sex game instead?
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source https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/05/these-are-the-top-fantasies-on-peoples-sex-bucket-lists-13373495/
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