Sex dreams can hit you by surprise and it’s interesting what your sub-conscious comes up with.
According to a new survey of 1,000 men and 1,000 women, the most common thing for women to dream about is sex with someone close to them – a friend.
But the most popular dream for men is something completely different – sex with an ex.
Of course, it’s important to remember that you shouldn’t take your erotic dreams too seriously as it doesn’t necessarily mean you want that thing to happen.
Just under three quarters of women surveyed said they have dreamt about a pal, while 68% thought about having sex with a work colleague.
Women’s ten most popular erotic dreams
- Sex with friend
- Sex with a work colleague
- Sex with a stranger
- Sex with my current partner
- My partner cheats on me
- Sex with the ex
- Sex with a celebrity
- Sex with the boss
- Group sex
- Sex with someone you hate
62% of women surveyed said they had thoughts about sex with a stranger, and just 58% had dreams about their current partner.
Fifth place went to a dream about their partner cheating on them – just over half of women (57%) have had this dream.
The survey, by IllicitEncounters.com, showed men’s choices were quite different.
Top choice for men was an erotic dream about sex with an ex-lover – 92% of men of have had this dream, compared to 54% of women.
The second most popular male dream is when a sex session with anyone goes embarrassingly wrong – 76% of men have had this dream.
Men’s ten most popular erotic dreams
- Sex with an ex
- Embarrassing sex dreams where something goes wrong
- Group sex
- Sex with a celebrity
- Sex in a public place
- My partner cheats on me
- Sex involving BDSM
- Sex with a work colleague
- Sex with a friend
- Sex with a stranger
In third place for men was an erotic dream about an orgy, experienced by 72% of men, but it only came ninth on the women’s list.
68% of men thought about sex with a celebrity and 59% about sex in a public place.
Erotic dreams also proved to be pretty popular with 93% of those surveyed saying they had them regularly.
More than a quarter of people said they have them every few days.
How often do you have erotic dreams?
- Every few days – 26%
- Once a week – 16%
- Once a fortnight – 12%
- Once a month – 14%
- Few times a year – 20%
- Never – 12%
Sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: ‘We all love having erotic dreams and they definitely provide a pointer to our real desires.
‘Women are much more likely to dream of sex with someone close to them that they secretly desire whereas men prefer to revisit their greatest hits – reimagining past sexual encounters with their first love and other ex-partners.
‘Both sexes have similar insecurities about their partners cheating on them.
‘Men desire group sex more than women and are also more likely to be haunted by past sexual failures such as an inability to perform.’
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source https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/28/these-are-the-most-popular-sex-dreams-for-men-and-women-survey-says-13491860/
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